Hi Anon, thanks for asking.
I used to identify as solely lesbian. When I discovered I liked girls, I assumed this meant that I couldn’t also like guys (I was in denial about bisexuality and other things being options). This went well for a while because I didn’t come across any guys that actually struck my fancy other than a few celebrities but I mean, everyone has crushes on celebrities whose gender they aren’t primarily attracted to.
During the course of the past few months, I realized that I liked girls but also like guys. I didn’t see it as much of a big deal though because I had become comfortable with my sexuality being a weird, fluid thing that had been changing and would continue to change throughout my life.
I am still attracted to girls but currently, the main person I am attracted to is a guy. And I’m okay with that. I’ve kind of stopped using labels for myself, not out of spite for the system, but because I don’t really see a reason to do so.
So yeah, Queer girl who likes a dude currently.
Today I went to the campus bookstore to pick up a thermos for tea.